“When you see a monster Kill him. If you wait to hear his past you might start loving him”.
The importance of having Boundaries, and how feelings confuse them.
In Psychology theres a term, ‘Mirror Exposure Effect’; the more you hear or see something, the more you start to like it.
When you listen to people you see them as human, and can understand why they did it.
But, just because you understand why they did it, it does not mean its okay. People tend to get confused and if not careful your feelings can make you ignore what is right, and that is why we need strong boundaries. Knowing right from wrong no matter what story is told. Staying principled and just is the goal at all times.
